When Boundaries Become Irrelevant

People at my events often ask: how can I protect myself, how can I stop attracting negative energy, how can I have better boundaries so my energy isn’t constantly vampired away..and so on.
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There’s an answer I can give you from five years ago that was helpful me at the time earlier on my awakening path which goes like this: protect your field, do an aura shielding visualization, be in your bubble of light, say a prayer or invocation such as: I am free sovereign whole and complete and nothing enters my field without my permission. Continue doing so throughout the day especially if you feel like you’ve absorbed something unwanted that doesn’t feel like yours.
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Today I’m more intrigued by a new conversation I hope to hear catalyzed on a greater scale…which suggests:
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Boundaries are no longer relevant when all of your focus is on radically honoring your desires in every moment, ensuring you have everything you require to be safe happy and secure with all needs met.
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When you are completely emBODIed in your vibration feeling like you – which feels amazing, promise – there’s nothing to protect yourself from. No one is coming to get you. No negativity is attracted to you. Unless you are at some level calling it in.
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Really when you make conscious your unconscious attachments to absorbing other peoples negativity to help them, fix them, serve them, seek approval from them, feel like you’re fulfilling a purpose in saving or healing them..you will see that no negativity comes to you unless you somehow are complicit in allowing it in.
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Repeat: nothing and no one is coming to get you unless you are available to be taken advantage of, drained, used, or otherwise subjugated into servitude instead of genuine authentic soul service (to your own desires first and foremost).
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Can you face the truth of how your unconsciousness – core wounds, survival mechanisms, coping strategies – are running the show, even still?
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Ask yourself: if I am drained by a particular person or situation or obligation, how am I somehow being served by continuing to allow this exchange to occur?
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You wouldn’t be experiencing it unless if at some level it is still serving you.

💕Syd

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